A telling thing in this world is that some only like to hear what they want while others are open to having others tell it like it is. Which are we? What would bring the most benefit. Yesterday we considered the first of these. Let us now consider the second.
When someone is open to having others tell them like it is, they are open to the reality of the truth. Though the truth should always be spoken in love so that growth can take place (Ephesians 4:15), do we need it sugar coated? Would we prefer it to be withheld? Just as it is said, “No pain! No gain!” relative to building up the muscles of the body, that is also sometimes true regarding our spiritual growth; growth that needs to take place. Are we willing to accept the discomfort for the gain? How open are we to the truth we need to hear?
Solomon stated. . .
“(8) Do not reprove a scoffer, or he will hate you; reprove a wise man, and he will love you. (9) Give instruction to a wise man, and he will be still wiser; teach a righteous man, and he will increase in learning.” (Proverbs 9:8-9 ESV)
Wisdom is revealed in the life willing to accept needed reproof. It is the wise person who will genuinely love those who will reach out to help make their life better. In the wisdom of accepting what needs to be heard the door is open for even more wisdom to be gained. Are we open to the loving direction we can receive from one another? Can we remain humble enough to listen to what we need to hear so that even greater spiritual progress can be made?
David wrote. . .
“(23) Search me, O God, and know my heart! Try me and know my thoughts! (24) And see if there be any grievous way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting!” (Psalm 139:23-24 ESV)
Most of all we must remain open to the inspection of God and the leading He provides through the truth of His Word. Let us join David in such a prayer to God so that we may see our life exactly as it is. Then, as we accept God’s guidance through the changes which need to take place, may we rejoice in having been enabled to see as we ought.
Have a great day BEING HUMBLY LED IN THE WAY EVERLASTING!
Carl
