From the cross — while looking out upon those who had a hand in His being there — one of the statements Jesus made was recorded by Luke where we read. . .
“(34) And Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.” And they cast lots to divide his garments.” (Luke 23:34 ESV)
Had they understood, they would not have crucified the Lord of glory. (1 Corinthians 2:8) They did not know what they were doing! However, it soon began to gradually dawn on some. (i.e. Matthew 27:54; Mark 15:39; Luke 23:47) And on the day of Pentecost, Peter helped others come to grips with their actions. (Acts 2:22-36) Instead of responding in denial or deflecting responsibility away from themselves, those hearing the words of Peter were duly cut to the heart (Acts 2:37), repented and were baptized (Acts 2:41), and moved forward better even with each other. (Acts 2:44-47) Though they had acted earlier without realizing what they were doing, their heart was open to redirection when their error was pointed out.
So many today are doing things without realizing what they are actually doing and the impact their actions and words are having on others. Following in the example of our Lord, we need to be willing to forgive when others have not treated us well. Rather than presuming it was intentional, let us graciously consider the potential lack of awareness of how they were coming across. But let us also each retain a sense of humility in remaining open to the help of others to see when that is us. Rather than denying or deflecting, let us listen and acknowledge what can be done and said in better ways. Not only will this make us better individuals, but it will aid in the development of better relationships. May we retain a heart ready to be forgiving of one another, as God in Christ has forgiven us! (Ephesians 4:32)
Have a great day OPEN TO UNDERSTANDING AS WE OUGHT!
Carl
