[07/16/2023 “teEn-MAIL”]
[This focus was originally sent 07/05/2009 (Edited some.)]
Sometimes a remedy for loneliness is to simply get out and do something for someone else. By doing so we may frequently find our own situation to not be so bad compared to that of others. It is also often found that simply connecting to be of service to others provides life connections that are powerfully encouraging even to our own selves. Simply waiting for meaningful connections with others to just happen by themselves may breed deeper loneliness, while focusing on others often creates the opportunity for the development of solid friendships. Just like what we sow determines what we reap (Galatians 6:7-8) so also what we be to a great extent determines the kind of connections we make with others.
Someone has written,
“I went out to find a friend,
But could not find one there,
I went out to be a friend,
And friends were everywhere!” [original source unknown]
Though most other translations read differently, the New King James version (and similarly in the King James Version) states. . .
“A man who has friends must himself be friendly, But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.” (Proverbs 18:24 NKJV)
Makes sense, doesn’t it? The manner in which we approach others can make a world of difference. The “r” is what makes the distinction between the words “friend” and “fiend”. What “r” we? Being the kind of friend we need will work well toward gaining such for ourselves. May we do to others as we would have them do to us. (Matthew 7:12) That rule is just as golden today as when our Lord first encouraged such living. May He be glorified through such action.
Have a great day ENJOYING POWERFUL FRIENDSHIPS!
Carl
