There are nothings which can provide sustenance and others which are devoid of any substance; that which may feed a relationship and that which may eat away at it. Couples have been noted for whispering “sweet nothings” to each other; words of affection which may be of little importance or meaning but are considered dear to each other in simply being nice, loving, or flattering. Then there are those who may speak “empty nothings”; words which offer no benefit whatsoever. This was part of Job’s experience with his friends to whom he responded. . .
“(2) I have heard many such things; miserable comforters are you all. (3) Shall windy words have an end? Or what provokes you that you answer?” (Job 16:2-3 ESV)
The words of those “miserable comforters” had no substance as Job called them “windy words” that just kept on coming. Later in one of his responses to Zophar, Job would state. . .
“(34) How then will you comfort me with empty nothings? There is nothing left of your answers but falsehood.” (Job 21:34 ESV)
Though they spoke on and on, they were accusative and tore at him rather than providing the comfort and support Job needed. Perhaps these friends were the greatest comfort to Job when they sat quietly with him the first seven days. (Job 2:13) Once they began to talk — seemingly thinking they had the answers regarding Job’s situation — all they provided were “empty nothings.”
In humbly acknowledging we may not know all the what’s and why’s of the circumstances of others (let alone even our own), we need to be careful of speaking in God’s place as if we fully understand. Rather than placing more grief on another, may we offer relief by our quiet presence to be with them, and when we do speak, offer words which would encourage them to hang in there and not give up hope. May what we do and say be of substance leading to feeding the relationship!
Have a great day SEEKING TO BE OF GOOD COMFORT!
Carl
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(“teEn-MAIL” is sent out daily by Carl Hanson, preacher for the Church of Christ in Port Townsend, Washington, USA, located at 230 A Street, Port Townsend, WA 98368. Come visit us if in the area.)
