James exhorted. . .
“(19) Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger; (20) for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God.” (James 1:19-20 ESV)
Often this passage is noted for how being quick to listen and slow to speak serve as a means of avoiding speech and anger we would regret. As James would also note, the tongue can quickly set a fire ablaze. (James 3:5-6) However, as we understand the great impact speech can have either for good or bad (i.e. Proverbs 18:21), the manner in which we use our ears can also have a dynamic impact on our relationship with others. There is a sense in which our ears can also speak something very meaningful to those with whom we interact in conversation.
Consider at least three things our willingness to listen can reveal as we interact with others. First, it can reveal we are willing to take the time to try and understand how another feels about or sees something. Secondly, it can reveal a humble attitude in not appearing like we assume we know everything and therefore have to make a statement regarding every point another makes whether we agree or not. Thirdly, it helps another realize we value them enough to listen to what they have to say rather than cutting them off or shutting them down.
As has been duly noted that having two ears and only one mouth may imply we ought to do twice as much listening as speaking, in the process we can do our part in creating an open atmosphere in which meaningful conversation and the drawing together of minds (and hearts) can take place. May we therefore not only be “quick to listen”, but patient through the listening as well!
Have a great day CONSIDERING THE MESSAGE OF OUR LISTENING EARS!
Carl
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(“teEn-MAIL” is sent out daily by Carl Hanson, preacher for the Church of Christ in Port Townsend, Washington, USA, located at 230 A Street, Port Townsend, WA 98368. Come visit us if in the area.)
