[04/30/2023 “teEn-MAIL”]
[This focus was originally sent 04/03/2001 (edited some with passages changed to ESV 04/03/2009)]
It is amazing how one thing can lead to another. There is so much in life that is more closely linked than we may perhaps realize. Because of this, if we were allowed to always choose our circumstances it is very possible we would miss out on some of the great benefits God desires to bring into our lives. Paul pointed out that endurance was developed through suffering. He then pointed out what comes from enduring.
“(3) Not only that, but we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, (4) and endurance produces character, . . .” (Romans 5:3-4a ESV)
Through the endurance of suffering and trials we develop character.
James stated it this way:
“(4) And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.” (James 1:4 ESV)
Why is the development of character important? Because life’s tests bring out what is within us. Are we developing strong character within? When we are upset or a trial attempts to knock us over, what spills out? When things are going smooth, it is easy to put on a front and appear to be one of good character. But when we are tested — that’s when our true character is generally revealed. And each time we endure a trial that character becomes even stronger.
Consider the following illustration:
THE JARS
The preacher placed two identical jars on the table next to the pulpit. He quoted 1 Samuel 16:7 “The Lord does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”
“These jars came from the same factory, were made of the same materials, and can hold the same amount. But they are different,” he explained.
Then he upset one and it oozed out honey. He turned over the other, and vinegar spilled out. “When a jar is upset, whatever is in it comes out.”
Until the jars were upset, they looked alike. The difference was within, and could not be seen. When they were upset, their contents were revealed.
Until we are upset we put on a good front. But when we are upset, we reveal our innermost thoughts and attitudes, for “out of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaks.” (Luke 6:45)
What if someone tipped you over today?? What would flow out?? Would you reveal the “honey” of grace and patience, or the “vinegar” of anger and sarcasm??
“Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.” (1 Peter 4:8)
Have a terrific day knowing that the one who upsets you may be just looking for some honey.
— Author Unknown
Let us rejoice when tested because it is an opportunity God has allowed to come so we might grow. Through the trials we can develop character that will ultimately reveal His power working in and through us.
Have a great day DEVELOPING GODLY CHARACTER!
Carl